Rather than being a year of increased awareness and adherence to the rights of the girl-child, activities surrounding the year 2017 appear to negate accrued painstaking campaigns and efforts that have gone into the liberation of the female gender in Nigeria.
Women were largely victims of rape, violence, abuse of all sorts among other ill treatments in a year.
However, a remarkable thing about 2017 is the reaction of women towards these violent acts. From objective observations, the response of these victims towards their human predators has been largely on a retaliatory note.
In year 2017, women resorted to the use of violence as a protective measure against their predators and many of them have ended their abusive relationship by stabbing their husbands or lovers to death.
For instance, an Oyo State High Court sitting in Ibadan sentenced a female lawyer, Yewande Oyediran, to seven years imprisonment for stabbing her husband, Lowo, to death for having a love-child outside their marriage with a white woman in Europe. Lowo got killed following an argument between him and his wife Yewande for wanting to bring back his child to Nigeria.
Another example was Sanda Bello whose mother is the former Executive Director of Aso Savings and Loans, Hajiya Maimuna Aliyu Sanda, had on November 19, 2017, reportedly stabbed her husband,Bilyaminu Bello, the son of Alhaji Halliru Bello, a former chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) to death during a quarrel after she saw a text message on his phone sent by another woman.
The Ladies Zone: Unprotected preys
In year 2017, virtually all states in the country recorded ugly cases of incest. Sadly, most of the victims happened to be children and relatives who had no voice and suffered in silence on the threat of being killed or maimed if they told anyone.
One of the cases is that of 52-year-old Paul Akpederi, who had been sleeping with his 16-year-old daughter for over five years before being exposed.
Another is the case of an incestuous father, Folorunsho Oluwaseun, who repeatedly abused his 17-year-old daughter between August 2016 and April 2017 at their residence in Ikorodu, Lagos State. The 51-year-old electrician had reportedly been awarded the custody of his three children after his divorce with his wife.
The victim, in return, had to comply against her wish as refusal attracts hunger and punishment for her and her siblings.
Unfortunately, Mr. Oluwaseun was released on N300,000 bail with two sureties in like sum after he pleaded not guilty to the charge.
Also, in the Unguwa Uku axis of Kano, a father (name withheld) was reported to have been consistently sleeping with his 14-year-old daughter whom he had impregnated on three different occasions. In Lagos, a 41-year-old father confessed to have started sleeping with his 15-year-old daughter blaming his involvement in the act on the loss of his job.
Pains of incest victims
A sexual assault referral centre in Lagos, the Mirabel Center recently rescued a Primary five pupil who have been sexually abused by her 35-year-old father, Emmanuel Idoko for over five months. The victim was said to have suffered psychological and physiological traumas, which made her, confess to a mandated reporter who visited her school.
Marriages dissolve over incest
Daramola Yemisi, a 36 year old seamstress had called for the termination of her marriage due to the incestuous relationship between her husband, Babatunde and their 15 year old daughter.
She said, “My husband left me on the bed and went to meet my daughter on the mat to romance her. I caught him touching my daughter’s breasts while she was asleep. After I caught him, I asked my daughter why she did not tell me, and she told me that my husband gave her money and told her not to tell anyone.”
Child rapists on the loose
Suddenly, child rape went on the rampage in Nigeria. Child rapists were seemed to be let loose on the prowl. They were everywhere. Almost on daily basis throughout year 2017, cases of child rape flooded the media.
In Ibadan, an 11-year-old hawker who sells detergent was gang raped by four men in February 2017 after being lured into an uncompleted building on the pretense of patronage. It was gathered that the victim had refused to sell to the men after smelling fowl but was subsequently forced into the building where her mouth was gagged.
A 35-year-old man, Haruna Murtari had also defiled a four-year-old girl, who according to reports happened to be the daughter of his neighbour. The accused had sent the girl to buy biscuits and when she returned he gave her his phone to watch movie, before having canal knowledge of her.
Also, a Vice Principal in Nassarawa State alongside three other persons raped a female student in his school.
These predators performed this act with extreme impunity coated in beastly passion to the extent that the Nigeria Police arraigned about 57 suspected rapists in Kano who defiled more than 57 minors within three weeks! Some of the victims were reportedly infected with HIV/Aids, while others got treated for various degrees of canal injuries.
Nigerian senate urges judiciary to revisit law on sexual offences
Sometime in May, the Deputy Leader of the Senate, Sen. Bala Ibn Na’Allah, moved a motion entitled “Urgent Need to Investigate Alarming Rate of Rape and Sexual Assault against Women, Children and Vulnerable People across the Country’’. He stated that the frightening increase in sexual violence cases constitutes a serious security threat to the larger segment of the society and that most of the cases where the victims are minor and under aged are severely under reported.
According to him, “The perversion is spreading across the country, with both the male and female gender as victims, especially in view of the poor prosecution and conviction numbers being turned out. It was stated that 1,480 cases of domestic violence, ranging from rape, child abuse, sexual abuse, assaults, defilement, to matrimonial issues were recorded in two years.’’
He therefore called upon the judiciary to re-visit the law on all sexual offences and address the seriousness they bear while also urging Police authorities to investigate and prosecute cases of sexual abuse, violation and violence in line with the provisions of extant laws of the Federation.
Child marriage also became prevalent in 2017. Men mostly in the Northern part of the country went for underage girls( girls before the ages of 15).
It got so bad that Nigeria was declared home to the largest number of child marriages in Africa, by United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) in November. UNICEF revealed that Mauritania, Niger, Chad and the Central African Republic rank among countries where under-age marriages thrive in Africa but Nigeria, with 23 million, is home to the largest number of child brides. It also warned as delegates met in Zambia to discuss how to halt the practice that child marriages in Africa was set to double by 2050 unless urgent steps were taken. “Africa’s population of girls is expected to balloon from the current 275 million to 465 million within 35 years. By 2050 we will have more teenagers marrying
in Africa than anywhere else in the world,” it said.
Corroborating the UNICEFs view, wife of the President, Hajiya Aisha Buhari lamented the prevalence of child marriage in northern Nigeria According to her, such practice negatively affect the health, education, economic condition and increase domestic violence of girls. She said that 28.2 percent of married women in Nigeria are between the ages of 15 and 19 compared to 1.1 percent of men in the same age group.
Hajiya Buhari, at the National Conference on Social Protection for the Girl Child, organized by Action Aid in partnership with Ford foundation in October; said that violence against the girl child is based on cultural beliefs and gender norms which takes many different forms in Nigeria, including domestic violence, female private part mutilation (FGM), early marriage, sexual violence, and exploitation through child labor and domestic work.
The Emir of Kano, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi in his presentation said that the right of the father to marry out his daughter without her consent should be taken away, because such right does not exist.
The representative of Ford Foundation, Innocent Chukwuma said that one in every three girls are estimated to be married before the age of 18, noting that child marriage lies at the intersection of a broad set of structural and social problems facing girls today. “The practice of child marriage violates girls’ human rights; curtails their educational future and success; exposes them to greater health risks related to maternal mortality, maternal disability, infant disability and HIV; and is more likely to lead them into violent and abusive circumstances, social exclusion and poverty,” he said
Violence against women
Violence against women in Nigeria, like most African countries, was very common in 2017 and committed with high degree of impunity. Figures put it at up to 50- 60 per cent of Nigerian homes and most of it go unreported, either because of our cultural background, the family set-up, or economy reasons.
Medical experts at a conference concluded that the psychological consequences of violence against women called for urgent action to stem the ugly trend.
According to a consultant psychiatrist, Dr Grace Ijarogbe, most of the cases of violence against women go unreported “because the perpetrators are at a higher advantage than the victim.” “… when violence is committed against a woman, she has a feeling that she is worthless, she has a low self-esteem, she withdraws from friends because she has a feeling that people will know what is going on and if she continues being abused, she becomes depressed, anxious and then, she starts making mistakes.”
In an effort to tackle the menace of violence against women, the United Nations under its Women, Peace and Security Programme in December, called on community and religious leaders to join hands in eradicating the menace.
Olusegun Akinwotu, a medical doctor said, the psychological effects of domestic violence according to him range from post-traumatic disorder, anxiety disorder, development of emotional mood disorder like depression and they can develop psychosis. “The prevalence of mental illness among women will be reduced by 50 per cent if domestic violence is reduced and that is significant because you can always trace most of these mental illnesses to something happening in the past.”
The representative of United Nations (UN) Women to Nigeria and ECOWAS, Dr. Grace Ongile spoke in Gombe during a one-day consultative meeting aimed at strengthening partnership and commitment with community and religious leaders in the state towards tackling the menace.
The organisation through its Deputy Programme Manager, said violence against women slows down poverty eradication, just as much as it is a consequence of discrimination against women.
The Permanent Secretary, Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development, Muhammadu Adamu Bappah said a draft copy of the domesticated Child right Law was before the state Ministry of Justice for consideration and onward presentation to as bill to the State Assembly.
Leah Sharibu: Heroine of faith?
May 14, may have been any other day for some Nigerians, the day could have come and gone without any special attachment to the day for some. But it is a special day for close friends, families and relatives of Leah Sharibu, the only remaining Dapchi school girl in Boko Haram captivity.
Sharibu who was held at the middle of her 14 years of age turned 15, May 14. Normally, Sharibu would have marked her special day with friends and relatives at home or school if she were not in the Boko Haram captivity. According to Nathaniel Sharibu, Leah’s father, the family had planned to honour their first child on her 15th birthday. He said he had planned to throw a moderate birthday bash for her and her friends.
“It is very sad, I must tell you. I had proposed to arrange a befitting birthday party for her and her colleagues in the neighborhood but now we don’t even know her whereabouts. It’s so sad,” he said. All the same, the father still observed the birthday for his daughter but this time, in spirit filled way.
He organised prayer sessions for her simultaneously in Yola and Dapichi, Yobe, May 14. He said he had no choice than to lift the fate of his daughter to God through fasting and praying. “Right now, I am in Yola on official duty and the church I attend here held prayer sessions for my daughter just as our church in Dapchi did same,” he said.
He added that his wife, who lives alone in their apartment after the relocation of their only son from Dapchi, joined the prayer chain in the Dapchi branch of ECWA “but as a woman she was crying most of the time,” he said. Sharibu was held back for refusing to renounce her Christian faith.
She was among the 110 girls-students abducted February 19 but she wasn’t part of those released a month after the federal government had negotiated the release of all the students in which Leah was unfortunate. Rebecca Sharibu, Leah’s mother, has not only been in sober mood since the abduction of her daughter, she has also lost peace of mind and sweet peaceful sleep, typical of a troubled mother.
Quite understandably, the mother became inconsolable and always in a deep state of mourning while other parents celebrated the return of their children. It was too much of a torture and an unbearable dilemma for her. As days, weeks and month passed by, her strength grew feeble but her faith in her belief wax stronger and resolute. Although, she went into coma, came round two days after, she kept hoping for what is now termed as ‘miracle’ to witness her daughter’s return.
In an interview with one of the national dailies, Leah’s mother said her daughter sent a message to her that her family should pray for the will of God to be done in her life. “The released girls told us that the insurgents insist that my daughter must denounce her religion.
They told us that she must recite the Kalima Shahada (the Islamic profession of faith in one God), which she does not know how to recite. Therefore, they told her that if she didn’t know how to recite it then she should come down from the vehicle. She had already boarded the vehicle alongside others that were ready to come home. So she was asked to go down and join some three other females they met where they were kept.
They said my daughter would only be brought back home the day she knows how to recite Kalima Shahada,” she narrated. The poor mother continued that, her daughter pleaded with her friends that if they eventually made it home successfully, they should inform we, her parents, to continue to help her pray for God to protect her and bring her home safely as well; that whether she survived or not, she still needed prayers.
My concern and question to the government is that since we were told that the negotiation was done for all the schoolgirls, why did government accept that only my daughter be left behind when others were freed and even brought home? With tears and trembling voice, she appealed to the Federal government to ensure her daughter’s quickest release.
“So I plead that Government and the negotiation team should revisit the terms of the agreement to enhance the release of my daughter. Everybody has his religion and no one should be compelled to practice a religion he or she never wishes to.” It is not only traumatic period for the Sharibu’s family, it is also a test of faith for those who have been keeping faith with the troubled family.
The family has emotionally connected with mothers of the world and other fellow Christian faithful, but it seems the Federal government is not connected, as it is yet to secure the release of Leah while mothers from different part of the country and world have also joined in pleading with the federal government to hasten the release of the teenager. Ironically, Rebecca, Leah’s mother is of a strong belief that her daughter’s abductors will accept her daughter’s faith-Christianity.
In an interview with New Telegraph, she said she was proud of her daughter ‘for not denouncing Jesus Christ’ even in the face of tribulation, stressing that she was resolute that her daughter’s incarceration would at the long run redeem the sect from perpetrating ‘evil into doing good’ Leah’s father alleged that government had not made any contact with his family since his daughter’s abduction.
“No delegation has visited the family since the February 19 episode. Not even a telephone call from anybody. Nobody has called me,” he said. He added that the whole town was in sad mood. “Even those whose children were returned are very sad about my daughter’s absence.
Though we are not of the same religion with them, they are just not happy and they are helping us in prayers too. They are doing their best possible through prayers to lift our burden,” Sharibu said. The father also pointed out that neighbours had daily been visiting his wife to counsel her, appealing to the Federal Government to alleviate the pains of the family by ensuring speedy release of Leah to rejoin the family. Meanwhile, the Minister of Information, Lai Mohammed, last week said that efforts are in top gear, to ensure the release of the Leah Sharibu.
“We are yet to resolve the issue of six girls. 111 girls were kidnapped, 105 were returned and we are busy on daily basis asking and negotiating and asking what happened to those five officially at least and then what is delaying the young girl, Leah Sharibu.
Negotiations with insurgents are quite tortuous and complicated at times but I can assure you we are not leaving her to her fate and those who should do are busy daily working on her release,” the Minister said.
Mother’s day: A day not for the hurt
Mothers are, perhaps, sweetest gift from God to all. There is no way they can ever be thanked enough. For all that a mother does, it would only be too good to make it a habit to keep reminding oneself of the various sacrifices she made while raising the children. Mother’s Day is the best time to say in words how much you love and care for your mum. Oluwatosin Omoniyi writes
The mind-boggling question is if the above expression of mother still holds sway dearly for most children especially those forced into early marriage or sold into sex slavery. And for the mothers, it is in doubt if they are still expectant of their children’s appreciation. A poet, Sandeep Gupta wrote a lovely poem in sweet memory of ‘Mother’
Mother is a part of God.
Mother is a part of Love.
Mother is a part of our Strength.
Mother is a part of our Winning.
Mother is a part of who direct us
to right path to proceed.
and ..and ..so on..
I Love my Mother very much…..
Don’t let ur Mother get
away from u….
Happy Mother’s Day….
Yes, those forced into marriage, child labour or by circumstances forced into prostitution may not remember to wish their mothers well as they also may be battling with the challenges life throws at them.
A typical example is 19-yearold Sudanese woman who was sentenced to death for fatally stabbing the man she was forced to marry, who she says raped her as his relatives held her down.
The case of Noura Hussein has shone a spotlight on the issues of forced marriage and marital rape in Sudan, where the legal age of marriage is only 10 and marital rape is legal.
Hussein’s supporters filled the courtroom in Omdurman, Sudan, and overflowed into the hall outside as the judge announced her death penalty. Her husband’s family refused an option to pardon her and rejected financial compensation, requesting that she be executed instead. Unfortunately, Hussein’s legal team has only 15 days to appeal.
“She’s still in complete shock after her sentencing today,” Dr. Adil Mohamed Al-Imam, one of Hussein’s lawyers, told CNN. Al-Imam donated his services after Hussein’s original lawyer withdrew from the case.
He added that Hussein was abandoned not only by the law, but also by her family. Her story have set social media and WhatsApp ablaze in Sudan. And in recent days it has captured international attention with the hashtags #JusticeforNoura and #SaveNoura. Thousands of people have shared a change.org petition.
Forced to marry at 15, Hussein ran away from home and sought refuge with her aunt for three years. She was tricked into returning by her father, who handed her over to her husband’s family. After Hussein refused to consummate the marriage, her husband’s relatives held her down while he raped her. “His brother and two cousins tried to reason with her, when she refused, she was slapped and ordered into the room.
One held her chest and head, the others held her legs,”Al-Imam told CNN. A day later, her husband tried to rape her again, and she stabbed him to death. When she went to her parents for support, they turned her in to the police. Amnesty International’s Sudan researcher, Ahmed Elzobier, said it was the first time a case of this nature had attracted such attention. “Marital rape happens in Sudan often and people don’t talk about it,” he said.
Hussein’s case had changed that, he said. Shahd Hamza, 20, was among those who came to support Hussein in court, after hearing about her case in a group chat on WhatsApp. She said that while the rape and harassment of women had long been an issue in Sudan, a case like Hussein’s had never gone viral.
Nahid Gabralla, director of SEEMA, a nongovernmental organisation working with victims and survivors of gender-based violence in the capital, Khartoum, has been campaigning in support of Hussein. “In my work I’ve seen other cases like this.
The suffering of Sudanese women is happening all the time,” Gabralla said. “The case of Noura is different. She stood for her rights.” Another example was a teenage wife remanded for allegedly killing husband, Umar Sani, 37, with `rat poison’.
The police in Kano are on her trail. The Public Relations Officer of the Police Command in the state, Magaji Majiya,disclosed in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Kano that the relations of the late husband reported the incident to Kofar Wambai Police station in Kano metropolis on Monday. He said, “after the Police received the report on the incident, they went to their matrimonial home at Yakasai quarters in Kano metropolis but found that the bride had run away,” he said.
“Our men had already swung into action with a view to trailing and arresting her to face prosecution,” the police spokesman said. According to him, the command will ensure that due process is followed in the investigation in order to ascertain the circumstances that led to the dastardly act.
On the killing of a kidnapped sixyear- old boy at Dabai quarters in Gwale Local Government Area of the state, Mr. Majiya said the State Security Services (SSS) had arrested the principal suspect.
“The DSS has promised to transfer the case to the state Criminals Investigation Department (CID) for further investigation, ” he said. He said as soon as investigation was completed, the suspect and all other accomplices would be charged to court. A teenager from Birmingham has told a court how her mother threatened to tear up her passport if she did not marry a man by whom she had become pregnant at the age of 13.
The girl, now 19, said she cried through a wedding ceremony and begged her mother for help after being forced into the 2016 marriage in Pakistan, four years after her pregnancy.
She told jurors that prior to the event her mother, who is charged with two counts of forced marriage, also bribed her with a smartphone. She claimed her mother became angry when she told her she did not want to marry the 33-year-old Pakistani national – a man by whom she had become pregnant on a previous visit in 2012 when she was 13 and he was 29.
She told Birmingham crown court how she felt like an “object that could be moved from place to place” and feared her mother would be angry and disappointed if she did not comply with her wishes.
She said: “I knew I was in Pakistan. I had nowhere to go. I had to do whatever was asked.” Another teenage victim of a forced marriage joked about her parents “giving her away” weeks before she flew to Bangladesh. According to the 19-yearold, she was lured on a sham holiday July 3 2016 to force her to marry her cousin.
She told a court that her parents, who cannot be named for legal reasons, are on trial at Leeds Crown Court via a Bengali interpreter. They both deny charges of attempting to coerce their daughter into marrying without her consent.
The Leeds woman used her phone to send her location details to her boyfriend, who then informed West Yorkshire Police on 11 July she may be in danger, prompting her eventual rescue, the jury heard. Giving evidence from behind a screen, her boyfriend told the court that three weeks before flying to Bangladesh, the teenager had mentioned her father selling his possessions and joked: “What if he is planning to give me away?” “I could only think about one thing… and that’s the Asian culture of arranged marriage,” he said.
However, he claimed he took her remark to be a “joke” and was not initially worried. But it was not until seven days into the trip that the woman contacted him and, in one message, told him not to text her “for a while”, he told the court.
The boyfriend told jurors he became concerned as a result and suspected her parents were forcing her into an arranged marriage. He messaged her saying: “You could have seen this coming,” the court was told. He described how he became “terrified” and “scared”. “She was far away and I did not know what was happening,” he told the jury.
The power of a woman’s criticism
The term ‘woman’ is the vessel of life and it is not a duty she discharges with levity. When the word, woman, is mentioned, apart from beauty and her feminine physique, it speaks of vitality, pillar, energy, and spirituality, among many other adjectives that could qualify her. Oluwatosin Omoniyi writes
According to M.B Antevasin, a teacher and scientist, “They are not kidding when they say that mothers are strong women. We need to be strong in more ways than our children will ever know.” Indeed, the strength and uniqueness of a woman can be compared to no other.
They constantly have to deal with lot of issues emotionally, physically and spiritually. Although, to some, particularly men, she is a nightmare of beauty and menace of a being, she is still superlative; a diamond that constantly beats imaginations.
With the many qualities that characterize multi tasking women, it becomes a nurturing tendency that often sets them in leadership positions apart from men. According to Nancy Pelosi, an American politician, “Women are leaders everywhere you look — from the CEO who runs a Fortune 500 company to the housewife who raises her children and heads her household. Our country was built by strong women, and we will continue to break down walls and defy stereotypes.”
Perhaps, it is in this light that Hillary Clinton, wife of former American President in her twitter account describes herself first as a, Wife, Mom,’ and Grandmother.” A description that a Nigerian novelist, non-fiction writer, short story writer and actress, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie found too belittling for her (Clinton) putting into consideration her many positions and contributions to American politics and society. As First Lady of the United States, Clinton played critical role by advocating for gender equality and healthcare reform.
Her marital relationship came under public scrutiny during the Lewinsky scandal, which led her to issue a statement that reaffirmed her commitment to the marriage.
Hillary Diane Rodham Clinton, 71 is an American politician, former diplomat, and First Lady of the United States from 1993 to 2001. She also served as the junior U.S. Senator from New York from 2001 to 2009 and as the 67th U.S. Secretary of State from 2009 to 2013. Running for president in 2008, she won far more delegates than any previous female candidate, but lost the Democratic nomination to Barack Obama.
During her tenure as U.S. Secretary of State in the Obama Administration from 2009 to 2013, Clinton responded to the Arab Spring by advocating military intervention in Libya. She helped to organize a diplomatic isolation and international sanctions regime against Iran in an effort to force curtailment of that country’s nuclear program. Upon leaving her Cabinet position after Obama’s first term, she wrote her fifth book and undertook speaking engagements. Clinton made a second presidential run in 2016. She became the first female candidate to be nominated for president by a major U.S. political party.
She lost the presidential election to Republican opponent Donald Trump despite winning a plurality of the popular vote.She received more than 65 million votes, the third-highest count in a U.S. presidential election, behind Obama’s victories in 2008 and 2012.
Following her loss, she wrote her third memoir and launched Onward Together, a political action organization dedicated to fundraising for progressive political groups.Going by the above brief description of Clinton, it was only normal for Adichie to react in that manner that most Nigerians misconstrued. Adichie to Hillary; “In your Twitter account, the first word that describes you is ‘Wife.’
And then I think its ‘Mom,’ and then it’s ‘Grandmother.” “And when I saw that, I have to confess that I felt just a little bit upset. And then I went and I looked at your husband’s Twitter account, and the first word was not ‘husband,” Adichie said.
Adichie was trying to, perhaps emphasis what Martina Navratilova, tennis player, said that, “I think the key is for women not to set any limits.” Adichie didn’t want Clinton whom she believed limit herself statue way too below her capacity especially as a woman of many diversities.
She was curious as to why with all of Clinton’s career accomplishments; did her Twitter bio primarily identify her as a “Wife”.Luckily, Clinton understood her unlike many Nigerians who took Adichie to the cleaners. Swiftly, Clinton indulged her by changing her twitter account to her critique specification!
“When you put it like that, I’m going to change it,” Clinton said, prompting roars from the crowd. However, Clinton explained that for why ‘Wife’ kicked- off her bio, which is that women should be able to celebrate both their accomplishments and their relationships.
According to Adichie, But the truth is that we were supposed to be having a ‘conversation,’ the context of our conversation was personal and warm, I had made the decision to speak from the heart.
It would be dishonest to pretend that I had not reacted personally to so many issues around Ms. Clinton, whose life has become a kind of crucible of all the questions that affect women.”
She explained that, “towards the end of our conversation, I told her how, having read her writing about her own life, I think she has a great love story with Bill Clinton. A wonderful friendship. I said I feel irritated and protective of her when people dissect her personal life, but I also confessed to having an interest myself, particularly about her public Twitter profile. (I first noticed it when I was researching a piece about her during the presidential campaign).
I was upset that the first word used to describe her was ‘wife.’ Was it a choice she had made or was it something done for her campaign and, if it was a choice she had made, did she think my reaction to it was fair?” She noted.
Adichie continued, “Her response was very thoughtful. I was too excited, emotional, slightly nervous, to be on stage with this remarkable woman. Had I kept in mind how easily outrage-mongers would jump on a headline, I would have phrased my question better. I would not have made it about my being upset, because it can come across as navel-gazing.”
Reacting to the interview, some Nigerians felt she took her feminism too far, adding that the question was intrusive and Hillary has a choice on her view on being addressed as a ‘Wife’.
Some others argued that the question was necessary for women to understand that they have to celebrate their achievements, not just on the home front, just like men. Some of the reactions: Popular blogger Linda Ikeji wrote @lindaikeji: I’m a big advocate for women empowerment, rights and independence but when I do marry, I’d proudly describe myself as a wife & proudly add my husband’s name to mine.
“Proudly! if you don’t believe in that as a woman, that’s fine too #differentstrokesfordifferentfolks,’’ @Linesandtimes tweeted, “Chimamanda said she was a bit upset by Hillary Clinton’s bio. Her intolerance for anything that does not align with her idea of feminism is really tragic. “A woman can be defined as anything she wants to be seen as, what’s important is that it’s her choice.” @Txtwistatornado wrote, “Lol I read the article, and I think it was great.
I don’t think she disgraced Nigeria at all. “She got Hillary Clinton to reevaluate the message she sends to women. I believe in a happy medium as a woman so I’m good with this interview.
IMO” @SeunxTemi tweeted, “Not going to read all these. This is someone’s personal life Chimamanda thinks she has the right to criticize in such an unwarranted manner.
“Hilary Clinton is a Queen and what her bio states shouldn’t diminish her numerous accomplishments.” @Realcalmday said, “If Hilary Clinton had a problem with what Chimamanda asked her, I believe she would’ve said so. Why are you people carrying the matter on your heads?” @Chinewubeze_mc wrote, “Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie went too far with this her feminism issue during her interview with Hilary Clinton today.” @Pengasonconcept tweeted, “So happy about how Hilary Clinton clarified Chimamanda on the true meaning of feminism.
“Just because a woman is up to the same task as an average man on earth doesn’t stop them from knowing their true responsibilities in life.” News Agency of Nigerian, (NAN) reports that Adichie’s feminism campaign has been a pivotal crux of her writing as her characters centre around powerful women who are usually dwarfed by the patriarchal system in their environments.
In 2017, Adichie released a small book titled – ‘Dear Ijeawele or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions’. Ironically, Adichie may be good and apt in critiquing but seems she is good in being criticised. In her response to one of the critiques whom she claimed she knew, she was mildly acerbic to put it. The #Response Cynicism is ugly. It doesn’t flatter anyone. Yours doesn’t suit you at all.
I remember you vaguely; I think you were in my class in primary school. And now you claim to be my ‘family’ and you are asking me to shut up. Did you watch the video of the conversation? Did you read a full transcript? I am tired of Nigerians who read a headline and, without bothering to get details and context, jump on the outrage bandwagon and form lazy, shallow opinions. I am tired of Nigerians cynically thinking of anybody in public life as a ‘brand.’ No, I am not a brand. I am a person who feels strongly about certain issues. I choose to talk honestly about them.
I made the choice to talk about feminism knowing very well the kind of hostility it brings – but I think it’s important and I will continue to speak my truth and hope to bring about some change, no matter how small.
Adirom agba egwu ka m data ego. No, of course you don’t actually deserve a response, but I have some free time today. So I want to make you feel a little important because it sounds like you need it.
And I want to reflect on an absolutely lovely hour spent on stage with Hillary Clinton. I was happy when I was told that Hillary Clinton had specifically requested to be in conversation with me at the PEN World Voices festival. I am an unapologetic fan of Ms. Clinton’s. I have been for many years.
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